In the previous article, we discussed the reasons why we should chase our goals in silence. We realised that pursuing our goals in private helps eliminate external pressure and validation, protects our goals from negative energy, and breeds self-reliance. Talking about our goals before they mature sets us up for a dopamine trap. In this state, the mind is tricked that the tasks have been achieved, yet we haven’t even started.
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In this article, we are going to explore 5 practical strategies we can apply to chase our goals in silence. “Executing in Private helps our brains stay in a productive mode rather than an approval-seeking mode.” Stay tuned.
1. Have an Accountability Partner
Instead of seeking validation from a group of friends and family who aren’t even interested in what you do, you can get one or two people you are answerable to. An accountability partner keeps you in check as you chase your goals. They help make sure that you stick to the plan.
From my personal experience, to become a better developer, I had one mentor I was accountable to. I could send my daily work log for review, and also my task plan to ensure I don’t get lazy in executing. He also gave me genuine feedback that helped me more on my journey. Choosing the right accountability partner is a blessing for personal development.
2. Try the 90-Day Silent Rule Challenge
Naturally, some people like talking about their goals and plans, which is a double-edged sword in the wrong environment. If you feel that you cannot control the urge to talk about your next start-up or plans for the summer, try the 90-day silence challenge. Make sure that you keep your goals secret for 90 days. This in return, helps develop the habit of not talking about oneself.
The other tactic you can use in the implementation of this strategy is the Fog Replies. For example, when chilling with a group of friends and the conversation takes turn towards the personal, use truthful but vague replies. When a buddy asks, “What are you up to these days?” You can answer with replies like I am working on personal development, instead of talking about the intricacies of your projects and goals.
3. Selective Secrecy Filter
Instead of talking about your vision and goals with everyone, even those that don’t support, you can utilize the secrecy filter where you only talk about your goal with people who add value to you or your projects for personal development.
Let’s say you are a Salesman, and are planning to start up your own depot. Talking about this with a friend who is a lawyer maynot add so much value to the project at hand. Whereas if you converse with people already in the same field gives you an added advantage as their information is from a state of wisdom and knowledge about the field.
4. Own a Progress Journal
On the pursuit of chasing our goals in silence, owning a progress journal is an added advantage. In here, we track both our long-term and short-term milestones. A private progress journal helps build self-reliance, which in return builds self-dependency and self-motivation, which are key components in goal chasing and personal development. The journaling method you use depends on your choices and preferences.
5. Utilise Productivity Apps to Minimize Distraction
Focus is an essential ingredient in goal development and pursuit. In this world of constant notifications, it is best to configure application timers and to-do apps to prioritise tasks and help us follow up. People in media are always sharing snippets of their lives. This can also make you share your goals on status. When you limit social media usage, you increase the chances of leading a more private focused pursuit hence personal and career development.
Conclusion
In the article above, we have discussed 5 practical strategies we can utilize to chase our goals privately and in silence. To cut out external validation, we can get one or two mentors. To avoid the urge to post updates on social media, we can utilize productivity apps and to-do lists to minimize distractions. In order to build self-reliance, we need to keep a progress journal and also the 90-Day-Silence challenge that helps build the habit of not talking about your goals. Which of the following strategies do you think can help you in your journey? Share in the comments section below.
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